THE DOMINANT MASTER MUST BE AWARE OF HIMSELF.
Usually making sure to handle your tools yourself first by feeling how the rope makes knots when tied to your arm or wrists, for example, before applying untested rope to your partner during the game can also help. But we’ve seen potential Dominants who think that all you need to be dominant is yelling or threatening your partner and having equipment like chains or a rope or a gag. We’ve all read some trashy novel that suggested that chains and cable ties are a good thing. No, this is not the case. And an experienced Dom knows it. He will be familiar and comfortable with his toys and tools. They will observe their submissives and act on whatever makes them comfortable. Dominants can yell at their partners, sure, but only within the limits that the partners have set together. This goes for faults as well as for Dominants who know…
Try out sadomasochism!
Sadomasochism is a practice that is undoubtedly frightening because it refers to notions of sadism. Yet there is no such thing as sadism, at least in the sense of violence and cruelty. Two partners who practice sadomasochism play together in relationships of domination and submission. However, these games are part of the essential fantasies. Everyone more or less wants to feel submissive or on the contrary, wants to dominate their partner at one time or another. However, these fantasies should be handled with caution. Moreover, hard sadomasochism, which encompasses particular practices rather distant from Eros, ultimately concerns only a very small minority of people. On the other hand, so-called soft sadomasochism can be practiced by all couples who have sexual complicity. On the condition of considering it as an erotic game. For example, a little spanking can cause real arousal. Like a bite in the neck or scratches in the…
THE PITFALLS TO AVOID WHEN YOU WANT TO BECOME A MASTER IN BDSM.
One of the “pitfalls” associated with being dominant in a relationship (which becomes a common pitfall for a novice Dom) is putting too much emphasis on expectations and fantasies, without stopping to consult or even pay attention to the other person. We think “Dominant” and immediately fantasize about power and control and the exercise of those desires, without acknowledging the reality: we are not the only person here, we are not a real master or a real kidnapper or anything else, but somehow it can get lost and we assume that “Dominant” means just that, and the other person is just a replaceable prop that we let’s play. And then, to make matters worse, we have the potential to get angry when said person expresses an objection, in this case a perfectly reasonable, no, important gesture and we react as such.FIRST LESSON: THE DOMINANT IS NOT (REALLY) RESPONSIBLE It doesn’t…
How To Become A BDSM Master?
In the BDSM community, becoming a true dominant master is a fairly common fantasy. However, achieving this fantasy is often much more difficult than you might imagine. Not only does it take a genuine desire for control, but it also takes a number of other characteristics, some of which may surprise you. So, do you have what it takes to be a Dominant? Let’s find out now.THE MAIN QUALITIES OF A BDSM MASTER: SELF AFFIRMATION This is perhaps one of the most obvious qualities that any Dominant should possess. In fact, assertiveness is an absolute necessity. To be a good Dominant, you need to know what you want and not be afraid to express those desires to your submissives. Now is not the time to be polite, so forget what your mom taught you and put the “please” and “thank you” aside. Instead, give concise orders to get your point…
What do I need to get started with soft SM?
No need to show a vivid imagination (although that can help spice up the game even more!). A way to tie the hands of your playmate is a good start to get into soft sadomasochism: a scarf, a belt, a tie, a pair of handcuffs … With whom to practice soft SM?A (somewhat) athletic partner. Having your hands tied casually makes your muscles work: beware of stiffness the next day. With a scarf, belt, or another tie, tie both hands of your partner. Is he standing or lying down? Instead, cross his hands in front: the posture will be less uncomfortable for him. Is he sitting or kneeling? Tie his hands behind his back, a BDSM position much sexier to watch! No need to tie a triple slipknot: the idea is rather that your partner cannot come off easily, but that you also have no trouble releasing them when needed.…
Sadomasochism, when the pain becomes a pleasure
Sadomasochism, when the pain becomes a pleasureSadomasochism is a sexual practice in which partners inflict pain and humiliation on themselves in order to achieve pleasure and enjoyment. Still taboo today despite the evolution of our contemporary societies, sadomasochism attracts as much as it questions. If the experience sharpens your senses, follow the guide.What is sadomasochism?Sadomasochism is to deliver between consenting adults in sexual games and coded based on the pain and humiliation. Establishing a relationship between dominant and dominated, sadomasochism is a source of extreme pleasure for its followers. It refers to two concepts: Sadism: it is the fact of making your partner suffer in order to arouse excitement. It takes its name from the famous Marquis de Sade whose libertine writings evoking the pleasure felt in afflicting pain had caused a scandal in the 18th century.Masochism: the follower of masochism needs to suffer in order to access pleasure. The…