How to get started with BDSM gently and without risk?
So what should we pay special attention to? Safety first! BDSM is quite an invasive activity, but if you practice it wisely, it shouldn’t cause any damage. It is important that the partner with whom we want to explore new experiences is someone we know and trust. At first, you should start with a conversation. Together, determine which practices are of particular interest to you, which ones can be authorized, and set a hard limit that you do not want to exceed. It is also a good idea to establish a security password, although it is not essential. Also, remember that communication is very important when playing games. Both the submissive party and the dominant party should think, but it is the dominant person who bears the most responsibility and who should think for both.The security password is a word we say when we have had enough Remember to hydrate…
THE PITFALLS TO AVOID WHEN YOU WANT TO BECOME A MASTER IN BDSM.
One of the “pitfalls” associated with being dominant in a relationship (which becomes a common pitfall for a novice Dom) is putting too much emphasis on expectations and fantasies, without stopping to consult or even pay attention to the other person. We think “Dominant” and immediately fantasize about power and control and the exercise of those desires, without acknowledging the reality: we are not the only person here, we are not a real master or a real kidnapper or anything else, but somehow it can get lost and we assume that “Dominant” means just that, and the other person is just a replaceable prop that we let’s play. And then, to make matters worse, we have the potential to get angry when said person expresses an objection, in this case a perfectly reasonable, no, important gesture and we react as such.FIRST LESSON: THE DOMINANT IS NOT (REALLY) RESPONSIBLE It doesn’t…
BDSM in your bedroom?
In general, most people limit themselves to milder versions of BDSM, also known as soft BDSM or soft BDSM. In terms of punishment and addiction, that’s a good thing: the risks are much lower when you keep the BDSM soft. Soft-BDSM is not an inferior form of BDSM. It is not necessary to be dressed in leather to practice BDSM. On the contrary. We are convinced that people have more BDSM aspects in their sex life than you might think. What to think, for example, of a man who orders his partner to give him a blowjob? Or the woman who pushes the man down and crawls over him? Or the man who grabs his wife by the hair during intercourse, or who rests his hands on the bed? Or the woman who puts her long fingernails behind her partner’s back? When deciding to play with pain and/or power in…